Break Free from the Double Life: Save Your Marriage, Reconnect with Your Children, and Unveil Your True Purpose ...
Even if Your Wife Hates You ...
And Even if Your Kids Don't Know You ...
And Especially if You Don't Have a Clue Who You Are and Where to Begin!
Are you tired of living a double life? On the surface, you’re a public model of success, admired and envied by many. Your achievements speak volumes, and you’ve carved a path of accomplishment that others can only dream of. But behind closed doors, your private life is a different story, and it’s becoming a living nightmare.
The pressure to maintain appearances while dealing with internal struggles can be overwhelming. You find yourself torn between the facade of success and the reality of a crumbling marriage. The burden of carrying this secret weighs heavily on your shoulders, and it’s affecting every aspect of your life.
Imagine the weight of losing hundreds of thousands, if not more, in current and future income through acrimonious divorce. All those years of dedicated effort, gone in an instant. And what about your spouse? Despite the differences, you’ve shared countless magical moments together. The thought of losing them is devastating.
But perhaps the most excruciating pain of all is the prospect of losing precious moments with your kids. The rights of men during seperation are virtually non-existent. The bond you share is priceless, and the thought of it slipping away is unbearable.
But here’s the truth: you don’t have to face this crisis alone. It’s time to break free from the shackles of your double life and find a way to reconcile the different parts of yourself. Through my bespoke and transformative therapy process, you can save your marriage, reconnect with your kids, and finally find your purpose.
I understand the unique challenges you face and the intricate dynamics that come with it. There are many complexities surrounding potential divorce, high net worth, and child custody battles.
Here Are The Big 6 Fears:
1. Financial Ruin: The thought of losing a significant portion of your hard-earned wealth and assets through a divorce settlement or hefty alimony payments can send shivers down your spine. The longer you wait, the higher the stakes become. The fear of financial ruin and a potential decline in your accustomed lifestyle is a heavy burden to bear.
2. Loss of Status and Reputation: Your professional achievements have become a defining part of your identity. The idea of your marriage failing and the potential loss of respect, social standing, and reputation can leave you feeling utterly shattered. The fear of being seen as a failure can be a hard blow to your sense of self.
3. Alienation from Children: Your dedication to work may have resulted in limited time spent with your children. Now, the fear of losing access to them, missing out on precious moments, and the possibility of losing the bond you share with them strikes you at your core. The thought of being distanced from your own flesh and blood is heart-wrenching.
4. Loneliness and Isolation: Your relentless focus on work may have left little room for nurturing personal relationships and social connections. Now, the fear of facing the prospect of loneliness and isolation, without the emotional support you desperately need, can feel utterly overwhelming. The idea of starting over and rebuilding a fulfilling life can seem like an insurmountable challenge.
5. Fear of Change and Uncertainty: The midlife phase often brings forth a fear of change and uncertainty. Potential divorce represents a significant life transition, and the fear of stepping into the unknown, navigating unfamiliar territory, and finding a new sense of purpose can leave you feeling paralyzed. The fear of leaving your comfort zone can be daunting.
6. Emotional Turmoil and Regret: Deep down, you may be grappling with the fear of confronting your emotions head-on, facing the pain of a failing marriage, and carrying regrets about not prioritizing your relationships earlier. The idea of diving into your own emotional landscape, seeking personal growth, and addressing past mistakes can be a daunting and emotionally turbulent journey.
I’ll offer an example of how I would address all of these issues at the end!
“I honestly thought no-one would be able to help me! I have a very complex family. Second marriage, blended families, a traumatised daughter, a son struggling with addiction and a wife turning to alcohol and me often joining her when we weren’t ‘at each other’s throats’ arguing. Aleks helped break all the issues down and helped me find the courage to lead myself and my family back towards healthy communication and love. It’s complex but we love each other! Once I really understood that and began to show it, we could let go of a lot of the pain and have fun again.” (Fabian P)
A Bespoke Process For a Busy Professional Requiring Fast, Deep and Long-Lasting Change
Please be aware: Due to my level of ‘hands-on’ involvement with each of my clients, I can only take on 3-5 clients at any one time. You may need to join the wait list if you don’t act soon and when it comes to marriage crisis, waiting is not recommended!
The Process:
This is an outcome, not time-orientated process. This means unlike traditional ‘hands-off’ therapy, I do most of the work between sessions so I can quickly teach you exactly what you need to do at each point in time.
Although I set aside up to 45 minutes a session just in case we go into deep territory, most sessions are only 15-20 minutes so they are easy for you regularly schedule.
I will do most of the work so you don’t
have to. I know your busy! After all, you have a career to protect and need as
much quality time with your loved ones as you can get!
Depending on the speed of your progress, 2-4 videophone sessions are scheduled each week.
To make your life easier, and our sessions ultimately practical, in-between sessions I may develop for you brief 2-5 minute:
- Psychological checklists
- Cheat sheets
- Meditation recordings
- Empowerment recordings
- Passion and communication enhancement recordings
- Step-by-step relational strategies
- Self-improvement rating scales and roadmaps
- Inspirational materials
- Seduction and passion inducing triggers
- Flow inducing triggers
- And more.
The objective is to consistently educate and bring out the best in you, leading to a profound transformation of yourself and your crucial relationships.
“I really DID NOT want to do this! Talking about myself was not something I had ever been comfortable about but there was just so much at risk. I knew I had to speak to someone and if you’re willing to listen and be courageous, then it will be successful. Once I could see Aleks was serious about doing everything possible to save my marriage and offers a total satisfaction guarantee, I gained the piece of mind to be open, vulnerable and honest. Once I started with him, his mental hand holding helped me for the first time in years, accept my wife and family’s love and support and return it. From that point on, everything got so much better.” (Iain N)
The Design: A Radical Breakaway from Traditional Therapy and Coaching
You need a transformation! A major psychological overhaul starting NOW!
You know that every additional minute that passes without radical change brings your family life closer to breaking point.
Really consider this question: How close to midnight is your RELATIONSHIP AND FAMILY DOOMSDAY CLOCK?
When you become my client, it is the psychological equivalent of an Athletes Coach relationship. An athletes coach is close to obsessed about everything their athlete needs. Not just athletic technique and strategy but diet, nutrition, hydration, sleep, mood, energy, strength, cardio, flexibility, mindset and even the positive and negative effects of their relationships.
This is what big-budget movie actors get access to, and the results can be incredible!
Imagine learning basketball from the coach of Michael Jordan or golf from Tiger Woods’ coach. That level of expertise and guidance is what you need to salvage your relationship. It’s time to turn pro and undergo close monitoring!
I’m the sole practitioner who employs this coaching and therapeutic approach. The objective is rapid acquisition of ultra-practical skills and profound transformation through frequent, tailored exercises and processes designed specifically for your unique needs.
I will be using my knowledge, experience and expertise in rapid emotional skill development, relationship enhancement, family dynamics and brain re-wiring to teach you super-fast strategies for relational transformation.
I’ll teach you what to do and NOT DO, when to do it and train you in a way that quickly makes it natural.
I’ll thoroughly study you, your life, and your family, closely monitoring your progress and offering fast, precise, and frequent feedback to facilitate exponential improvement.
Our aim extends beyond salvaging your marriage and family; it’s about creating an extraordinary one. As soon as you become my client, I’ll promptly analyze and profile your relational life, teaching you precisely what actions to initiate, abandon, amplify, and master.
I assure you, nothing you’ve encountered thus far will come close to the level of attentiveness, care, and empowerment that I provide.
You are going to start engaging with your partner and family like never before.
(Btw: I’m not saying it’s all your fault, but the truth is you’re the one with the most to lose. You’re the one that has to create a better future and not get caught up in the past. You’re the one that has to step up and fix it).
Example Six-Step Speed-Session Structure
To once again use an athletic metaphor, when you come in, the weights are prepped and the treadmill is already running. We quickly outline the goal (based on your history I will always know what the key ones will be even if you don’t) and get to work.
1. Uncover problem and set goal
2. Put you in the best mental and emotional state so you’re open to solving it
3. Outline a simple step-by-step mental and/or emotional process to fix it
4. Reinforce lessons with meditative and imaginal exercises to condition and make natural what you learn
5. Practice it and obtain feedback in session
6. Receive supplementary notes and exercise recordings for quick access when needed.
1-6. Then next session review, adjust, set goal and repeat process
“I hate therapy. Still do! Aleks’ method is not like anything else I had tried and I’m so thankful I did. Everything in my life was wrong. I had cheated on my wife, was abusing drugs and as much as I wanted to pretend otherwise, my wife knew it all. I had one last chance. But, it wasn’t about me apologising profusely, yes I did apologise, but what was more important was showing her how she could trust me again and knowing how to deal with her justified anger and outbursts towards me in a way that continued to bring us closer together. My wife trusts me now and just as importantly, I trust me. Life is good, really good.” (Jon T)
A Bold Commitment
This intensive coaching process operates at a high level, with goals that are tailored and tracked. When you fully commit to this process, here’s the promise:
Within 3 months: You can expect a minimum improvement of 30% in your marriage and other significant relationships.
Within 6 months: You can anticipate a minimum improvement of 70% in your marriage and other key relationships.
Within 12 months: You can look forward to a minimum improvement of 80% in your marriage and other essential relationships.
An Unparalleled Satisfaction Guarantee or Your Money Back
This comprehensive transformative process spans 12 months, requiring an initial commitment of 3 months. If you choose to continue, the remaining 9 months will encompass the entirety of the transformational training.
However, should you find yourself dissatisfied with the service at any point during the journey, I offer a full refund for that specific month. Furthermore, you have the option to terminate the contract and receive a refund for any unused future months.
Your satisfaction is of utmost importance, and this guarantee ensures that you can embark on this transformative journey with confidence and peace of mind.
“I was a workaholic. It was a badge of honour. I’d come from a long line of them. I’d grown up with one basic thought, you’re either working or you’re nothing. Ironically, if I kept working this way I would have ended up with nothing. The truth is I was using work as an excuse to hide from my most important responsibilities. Almost losing my marriage was the hard reality check I needed but it wouldn’t have been saved if I hadn’t learned what to do. The answer for me sounds simple but the skills had to be intensely drilled into me. Shut up and listen! Actually care and pay attention. Give them real time and make them feel special. What I gave I have received back tenfold.” (George J)
Next Step: No Obligation, No Sales Pitch, Free Call
Call me now (leave a message if I don’t answer, I might be helping one of your fellow men in a similar situation) and let’s see if I can help you transform this troubling double life situation now! (Ph: 0742 857 1968, email: al@2minutebrain.com or using contact form link at top of page).
If the monthly cost of 6-7K is not within your comfortable budget, I kindly suggest refraining from making the call. Although my fees are usually significantly lower than that, it’s important for you to understand that this is an intensive and personalised process, and therefore not inexpensive. However, considering the potential consequences of a marriage dissolution, it remains a small financial and emotional investment.
During our free 30-minute call, I will diagnose your situation and provide a rapid treatment plan aimed at salvaging and enhancing your marriage. I assure you that it won’t be a sales pitch—I have no need to sell anything. You’ll either understand the value of starting immediately, or you’ll choose not to. After our conversation, the decision will be yours to make. Each day in a struggling marriage is crucial but I can’t make you do anything you don’t want to do.
“Our sex life was dead! I didn’t want to talk about it. I’d been avoiding it for years. I wasn’t in great physical shape and neither was my partner. We were hiding from each other and self-medicating with food and alcohol and the split was reaching breaking point. Aleks quickly helped me get to the root of the problem and the push to take a step by step approach back to trusting and expressing desire without shame or judgement. Once it started, it became hard for us to stop! The gates were open and we rediscovered a level of intimacy and satisfaction that we honestly thought was dead. The change shifted our entire family trajectory.” (Ryan F)
What About Me I Hear You Say – What’s My Story!
I totally get it, and it makes perfect sense that clients want a health professional who not only talks the talk but walks the walk when it comes to personal experience. Just like you wouldn’t trust an overweight personal trainer, it’s crucial to have someone who not only knows the ins and outs of a healthy marriage and family life from a clinical standpoint but also lives it in their own life!
So here’s a bit about my own journey. I’ve been in an amazing relationship with my wife for a solid 20 years now. Let me tell you, we’ve faced our fair share of challenges that really put our bond to the test. The first five years were spent in a long-distance relationship, dealing with all the longing and distance that comes with it. And you know what? We even had some important family members who weren’t exactly thrilled about our union for quite a while. Talk about a tough nut to crack!
To add to the mix, we’ve experienced the unique adventure of living in different countries, far away from our families. And believe me, raising two young kids comes with its own set of hurdles. But you know what’s amazing? Through all of that, our marriage has stayed strong, our kids are going great and our love has grown even deeper. What about our sex life? Well, let’s just say it keeps getting better and better, but hey, I totally respect my wife’s privacy on that front so I’m not going to spill any more details on a public forum. We both believe that trust and privacy are sacred pillars of our relationship.
So, rest assured that when you work with me, you’re getting someone who not only understands the theory but has lived through the ups and downs of a real, thriving marriage and family life.
“I had already been through one crushing divorce, it very nearly killed me, and I did not want to go through another one again. Whatever it was going to take to stop it, I was willing to try. I always thought it was hard work and it was! But I was supported the entire time, multiple times a week, getting the feedback and training I needed to open up, be truthful, share my feelings, show some real passion and ultimately win her heart back.” (Max C)
About Me
Aleks George Srbinoski is a London-based Australian, though he primarily works online, and is widely recognized as a #1 bestselling author, speaker, and clinical psychologist. With over 15 years of clinical therapy experience, his areas of expertise revolve around mental health, happiness, peak performance, and resolving marriage and family crises. With an impressive background as the principal psychologist on the renowned UK TV show ‘Dr Christian Will See You Now,’ (photo below) Aleks now specializes in personalized and intensive interventions for individuals, predominantly men, who are at high risk of divorce.
Revered as the “speed psychologist,” Aleks utilizes a unique approach called the “2-minute mentality” to swiftly pinpoint and address core issues affecting men in marriage and life crises. His innovative “2-minute techniques” seamlessly integrate into daily routines, fostering increased confidence, joy, healing, and stronger connections.
Aleks has authored multiple #1 bestsellers, (photo below) including “Destiny Defining Decisions,” “Happiness Up Stress Down,” and “Maximum Mental Health.” The latter serves as a comprehensive life enhancement manual, encompassing all essential aspects of living well. It provides strategies for overcoming stress, anxiety, and depression, as well as tackling relationship struggles. Moreover, it fosters peak performance, meaning, and mastery in life.
In addition to his literary accomplishments, Aleks previously hosted his own self-development TV show, broadcast on Foxtel in Australia. He is a sought-after contributor to media outlets and popular magazines, both domestically and internationally, offering insights on business and psychology. As a key opinion leader and happiness expert, Aleks has partnered with Vodafone’s World of Difference Campaign. He has also made appearances as a guest on major radio stations in New York, Chicago, and California, and delivered bi-weekly segments on happiness tips and training for Chicago’s leading news radio station.
Example Method for Treating the Core Issues
To address the six prominent issues faced by driven, high net worth men at midlife, here is a sample of some of the empowering techniques that may be used to enhance your masculine strength and sense of purpose:
1. Financial Ruin:
Financial Planning: Learn the psychological aspect of financial planning and negotiation to safeguards your assets, minimizes financial risks, and ensures a fair settlement.
Stress Management: Develop effective stress management techniques to avoid making impulsive financial decisions during this challenging time.
2. Loss of Status and Reputation:
Self-Reflection: Engage in introspection to identify your core values and redefine success based on your own terms, rather than societal expectations.
Personal Branding: Build a strong personal brand that highlights your expertise, integrity, and resilience to regain and enhance your professional reputation.
3. Alienation from Children:
Communication Skills: Learn effective communication strategies to connect with your children and rebuild trust. Active listening, empathy, and open dialogue are crucial.
Quality Time: Prioritize dedicated quality time with your children, engaging in activities that strengthen your bond and create lasting memories.
4. Loneliness and Isolation:
Support Network: Seek support from trusted friends, family, or support groups who can offer emotional encouragement and companionship during this challenging period.
Therapy: Engage in bespoke speed therapy to explore underlying emotional issues, develop coping strategies, and cultivate healthier relationships.
5. Fear of Change and Uncertainty:
Mindfulness and Acceptance: Practice mindfulness and other bespoke strategies to cultivate acceptance of change and uncertainty. Focus on the present moment and embrace the opportunities that arise from life transitions.
Goal Setting: Set realistic but ambitious short-term and long-term goals to give yourself a sense of direction and purpose. Break down larger goals into manageable and well-supported by me steps for a smoother transition.
6. Emotional Turmoil and Regret:
Therapy and Emotional Healing: Work with a me to process and heal emotional wounds, address regrets, and develop strategies for advanced personal growth and self-forgiveness.
Journaling and Reflection: Engage in regular journaling or equivalent self-reflective exercises to explore and express your emotions, thoughts, and regrets. Use reflection as a tool for personal insight and growth.